Custody and Access
Custody refers to the day-to-day care, residency and upbringing of children who are regarded as dependent children. Access refers to the right of a child to maintain direct contact with the parent with whom the child does not reside.
The welfare of children is of the utmost importance to consider when a marriage or relationship is in difficult times or when it ends. The determination of custody will have to be considered in a separation or divorce. In most cases, one parent (usually the mother) is granted custody of the children, but it is possible for both parents to have custody. This arrangement is called joint custody. The natural mother is the automatic guardian of a child. Whether the father is the natural guardian depends on his relationship with the mother. In short, if the father is not married to the mother, he is not considered the automatic guardian and must apply to the courts for guardianship status.
When custody agreements cannot be reached between couples, parents can apply to the courts for custody. The court then decides what is in the best interest of the children. Children have the right to visit and interact with their non-custodial parent. Both parents can agree upon arrangements for access to the children, or the court can impose arrangements, depending on the situation and what is in the children’s best interests. Obviously, it is preferable if the parties can agree upon custody and visitation rather than a court imposing a visitation plan. Sometimes, parents agree to split the children with one party having one child and the other having the other child. This type of arrangement is frowned upon by the court and it is generally considered to be in the children’s best interest for siblings to remain together.
Where one party is awarded custody, the other party is entitled to apply to the court for “access”. The court will usually grant access in the absence of a compelling reason not to do so. However, the right of access is the child’s right, not the parents’ and the best interests of the child are paramount and will take precedence over the interests of the parents. Sometimes, depending on the nature of the non-custodial parent’s actions, the court may grant monitored visitation or access so as not to deny outright one party’s access when the said party has committed some egregious act. In any event, even though an access order has been made, such an order is always open to modification at a later date when one party applies to the court to vary the order.
It should also be noted that other relatives, including Grandparents, may apply to the court for access to their grandchildren. This is a complex matter and any relative seeking access, when he or she has not been designated as the child’s guardian, should seek legal assistance.